Sharing a kink

Have I been blessed by finding partners willing to explore (and I've been willing to explore with)?

All my adult life I’ve been kinky. During that time I’ve had my ups-and-downs with lovers who ridiculed or rejected me because of it.

Yet along the way, I’ve known people who have shared them from the start, or been willing to explore and experiment. Some went on to retain their kinks, others saw it as an “accommodation” and it faded when we parted company.

And, of course, I’ve picked up a few along the way as I’ve done the same for my partners.

If you have a kink: be patient with those you love.

If your partner has a kink: see above.